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How To Stop Binging On Sugar - Understanding Binge Eating And Sweets

Updated: May 11

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Let's be honest, binging feels horrible. But it is often very misunderstood. Binge eating is not some kind of personal failure, lack of willpower, or food addiction, despite what so many people like to claim.

Binge eating typically happens as a result of a combination of a few things: restriction, emotional distress, and/or trauma. And if sugary foods are something you've spent a lot of time not allowing yourself to eat, you are more likely to want to binge eat sweets. But that's not usually the whole story...

What is binge eating?

Binge eating is eating that feels out-of-control, often numbing or "checking out" during the eating process. It is typically consuming "large" amounts of food in a short period of time, usually more than the body needs for physical nourishment, and becoming uncomfortably full afterward, although some people do not feel too full, no matter how much they eat.

During a binge, you may feel unable to stop, out of control, or totally tuned out from your body. You may plan a binge hours ahead of time, or it could be unplanned and spontaneous. But one thing is certain- it serves a psychological purpose, even though it can just feel horrible.

Here is a great interview with Amy Pershing, a binge-eating expert, on Food Psych with Christy Harrison.

Reasons you may crave and binge on sugary foods

1. Restriction

Binge eating and binge eating disorder are fundamentally restrictive. I know that can be extremely confusing, but it is true. So if you currently try not to eat sugar, or you have a belief that sugar is bad, or that sugar is addictive, and you ALSO binge eat sugar or crave sugar constantly despite those thoughts, your body and brain could be binging as a way of coping with the real or perceived deprivation.

Sugar addiction is a hotly debated topic and an interesting discussion. Here is some research that supports the side I'm on - sugar restriction eventually leads to increased cravings and disinhibition. The few studies that show sugar addiction is a thing are in animals, not humans. Plus, who really wants to live without sugar forever?! Nope, not me. I do recognize that for those who struggle with alcohol and drug addiction, sugar can really feel similar. But even so, I do not support the notion that anyone needs to give it up entirely.

Binge eating can also be a reaction to emotional, psychological, or spiritual restriction. Things like not speaking up for your needs, not living life the way you authentically desire, or not having enough connection or pleasure in your life can make you more likely to lean on food as a coping mechanism or a way to soothe yourself.

Strict rules for eating and living can trigger binging or cause you to develop binge eating disorder. For more about why food rules trigger binge eating and what to do about it, check this out. And if you want my take on why other types of rules we live under can cause us to have unmet needs (restriction), keep following along. I am writing about this next month and believe it to be a key to unlocking how to heal from disordered eating.

2. Chronic dieting

If you're trying to lose weight and binging anyway, some deprivation effects are clearly going on. General food restriction (ie not eating enough) by doing things like calorie counting, doing a keto or low carb diet, or any other type of food group or food amount restriction - can also feel like deprivation in your body (not to mention your spirit). Lack of proper nutrition is felt by your body, so simply put - not eating enough can trigger a sugar binge, or binging on any type of food.

Binge eating is most common at night. If you don't eat enough during the day... maybe skimping on carbs and fat at lunch and depriving yourself of afternoon snacks, you may find yourself more likely to have the urge to binge eat at night.

In addition to being more hungry at night because of not eating enough during the day, it is common to be less busy (so less distracted from our emotions), more likely to be alone, and more likely to have easy-to-access food around. This is why prioritizing eating a filling breakfast and lunch are the best things to do to make you less likely to overeat at night.

3. Emotional eating

Emotional eating is often misunderstood. Is it normal to eat for comfort, like ice cream to deal with a humid day, your grandma's lasagna after a stressful day, or any kind of traditional cultural food when you feel disconnected. This is not a problem and is actually a good thing.

And it could be argued, that eating food for emotional reasons is really fine even if you do it every day. But if the quantities are enough to make you feel horrible, then it is likely leading you to feel even worse physically and could be raising your blood sugar.

And if you are binging mostly at night, that could be because you are holding in your emotions all day, or are not feeling safe to be yourself or express your needs at work. Stress is a huge factor these days for all of us. Our lives are incredibly busy. Too much stress and not enough stress management skills can lead to binge eating at night.

If you have gotten into the habit of using food to soothe any sign of a difficult emotion, ie emotional eating, it can easily turn into a binge if the emotions are severe enough and if you haven't learned other helpful tools for dealing with difficult emotions. Combine that with other types of restriction and you can really be triggered.

The key here is to process and heal from the emotion that you're experiencing. (clearly not an easy task, and one that may involve therapy or other types of psychological therapies)

Why does binging feel like emotional eating?

During a binge, you are likely to feel temporary - but real - relief from difficult emotions you were struggling with before the binge. Anxiety, loneliness, fear, depression, and stress are common reasons that someone may binge eat. That emotion may be something you are consciously aware of, but it could also be something that is buried deep down. This is how trauma shows up.

How to recover from a sugar binge

After a binge, it is common to feel intense feelings of shame, disgust, or guilt toward oneself. Unfortunately, these feelings often perpetuate the binging cycle. One important way to heal from this binge cycle is to work on self-compassion. Think about what brings you peace and soothing other than food. Something simple like aromatherapy can be a help. The simple act of choosing to care for yourself in that delicate moment - when you're feeling horrible after a binge - can go a long way to helping the next day feel a lot better.

Binge eating vs binge eating disorder (BED)

If you feel triggered to binge eat most days of the week, and it's happening week after week, it's possible you could be diagnosed with binge eating disorder (BED). Binge eating disorder is the most common eating disorder and is extremely under-diagnosed due to lack of awareness about eating disorder nuance by healthcare professionals and body-size bias (weight stigma), which is rampant. This article from Project Heal explains how common anorexia is in larger-bodied folx. The original piece in the NY Times is right here.

So, the difference between binge eating and binge eating disorder is the frequency and intensity of the episodes and the amount of emotional distress that corresponds. BED also includes moderate to severe mental health disturbances. If you think you may have binge eating disorder, you could tell your doctor if that feels safe. You could also send me a message and I can help direct you toward the care that you need.

Tips to reduce binge eating with Intuitive Eating

1. Get adequate nutrition

Make sure you're feeding yourself enough during the day (especially carbs and fat). That means eating breakfast and lunch, and at least one snack in the afternoon (some people need a morning snack too). If you're hungry at 3 in the afternoon but you try to suppress your appetite by drinking water, diet soda (not that there's anything wrong with diet soda), or eating plain carrots, you are very likely to be EXTREMELY hungry when you're done with work.

After eating enough during the day for a week, see if your urge to binge at night lessens.

2. Give yourself permission to eat all foods.

Forbidding yourself from eating your favorite foods is not likely to last long without backfiring. The more you lean into unconditional permission to eat, the more you will learn to trust your body. This is going to be really hard if you're actively striving for weight loss. Another important point here - if you tell yourself that you need to stop eating sugar - you are just setting up that deprivation mindset that will keep you stuck.

3. Make a very loose plan for how you will eat (a non-meal planny meal plan)

You do need a general idea of how you're going to feed yourself throughout the week. If that's food you make, takeout, freezer meals - great. Remember that food rules do not help you in this scenario. Just have enough food accessible to you so you don't run into a food emergency. That is a really good setup for a binge episode.

(if you want to change your eating habits, like eat less cheezits or more vegetables down the line, great. But if you're dealing with binge eating, now is not the time)

Make sure to plan for snacks too. If you need some healthy snack ideas, include carbs and/or protein (all 3 is great too) in your snacks as well. So if you like cheezits, try adding some nuts to them. If you like fruit, add cheese. If you like yogurt, add granola. You get the idea.

4. Find ways to feel, heal, and deal with your emotions.

This one is, of course, not simple. Be curious about a craving, rather than immediately blaming yourself for having it. If you are overly stressed, try some soothing techniques like spending time outdoors, getting more sleep, or talking to a therapist. If you have some deep trauma that you are aware of, I suggest putting the project of controlling your body on hold and finding someone who can help you process your past.

5. After a binge - do not let your negative self-talk run rampant.

This is very important - talk kindly to yourself. Say things like "it's ok. I'm okay." Do something that soothes your nervous system like deep breathing, looking at the stars in the sky, lighting some incense, or using aromatherapy.

The day after a binge, maybe the next day, unpack it. Ask yourself why you were triggered. Did you eat enough earlier in the day? Did you binge on foods you've labeled as "bad"? Is subtle restriction showing up? Was there an experience today where I did not get my needs met?

6. Work with a binge eating coach or dietitian

I see the most amazing people drastically change their relationship with food by working regularly with me. I'm not saying I'm the only option (obviously), you need to find the right person who you connect with and you feel safe and comfortable with. But I believe we all deserve to have peaceful and abundant relationships with food. Working with someone 1-1 allows you the space to really understand why food is such a strong coping mechanism for you. Being guided by an expert is a game-changer.

So, to sum up - binge eating often happens because of physical and emotional unmet needs.

If you are restricting yourself - in actuality, or just the feeling that you should be "eating better" to lose weight, it can lead you to feelings of failure and an urge to binge eat. Sugar cravings are often due to deprivation or a perceived future deprivation (a belief you should stop eating sugar).

If you are dealing with binge eating on a regular basis, I promise you - you can heal. First things first - make sure you're eating enough. It is often quite hard to know how much to eat if you've been a chronic dieter for 20 years. Working with someone who can guide you on this to make sure you're eating enough, and help you work through how surprisingly difficult this may be could be super helpful.

If you want some simple strategies to start making peace with food and understanding your binge eating, download my free guide - 5 Steps To Peace and Freedom With Food.

Binge eating is also an issue that thrives in secrecy and shame. Group support can be extremely supportive for helping you unpack the reasons you binge eat, and find sustainable solutions. If you're ready to get help with your binge eating, consider reaching out to me.

My group program, the Love Food Again Program, is something to consider. It is a comprehensive group program with lots of individual support built in to help you really turn your relationship with food inside out - shake it up - and find empowerment to make food choices that feel good to you - not like more rules and control.

You deserve a happy relationship with food and your body. You can get there.

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About Emily

Emily Van Eck, MS, RDN specializes in intuitive eating, mindfulness-based eating practices, embodiment with food and movement, and healing from years of weight-bias and chronic dieting. She helps people find balance, consistency, and peace with their eating habits so they can feel confident to get outta their heads and into their bodies. Emily is a registered dietitian and certified intuitive eating counselor with a master's degree in nutrition science. Read more about her here.



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Emily Van Eck, MS, RDN 

Here on the blog, I use the intuitive eating principles to dispel oppressive diet bs and help you to make food easy and joyful. I you to find pleasure in food - without guilt

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