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One Pot Chicken Tomatillo Stew With Lime

by | Apr 13, 2023

One pot chicken tomatillo stew with lime – from a gentle nutrition standpoint

I wanna talk about food for a minute – delicious food. When trying to have a positive, nourishing relationship with food, it’s super important to keep eating delicious food. So, in this post I’m sharing one very simple, very delicious way to get dinner on the table in a pinch. You just need a few ingredients, a blender, and a pot. (2 pots if you’re making rice). This recipe for one pot chicken tomatillo stew is super adaptable. You could make chicken tomatillo tacos, serve it over rice, or with potatoes.

If you’ve read anything from me (or followed me on social), you know I am on a mission to help folx heal their relationships with food and their body. This is a very personal issue for us all. We all deserve to eat well. And when I say eat well, I mean find that balance between nutritious and delicious, and find lots of joy, connection, and ease with cooking and eating.

When working on your relationship with food with intuitive eating, it’s important to take the focus OFF FOOD for a while. Allowing all foods into your life, taking morality out of it, and making eating easy for yourself all allow you to be a more intuitive eater. We work on neutralizing the inner critic, getting curious about how foods feel in the body, and reconnecting with your body’s inner wisdom. In this post, I’m talking about the last step of intuitive eating – gentle nutrition.

I love chicken thighs – and really, I just can’t, with chicken breasts

Chicken thighs are my favorite way to make dinner (and leftovers) – easy, delicious, nutritious, and affordable.

I make chicken thighs in about 50 different ways and just simply can’t get enough. Sometimes I boneless + skinless are what I’m feeling. These are better in stir fries, stews, curries, and if I’m making a batch to put on sandwiches or salads for lunch. And if I want a scrumptious, crunchy chicken dinner, it’s bone-in + skin on. This way is a little more messy, but so yummy. I made this amazing recipe recently from my fave, Allison Roman. Highly recommend.

Olives + chicken skin + parsley = true love

Dark meat is fine and totally good for you. It has more fat – but that is good! You’ll stay full longer, and will likely be more satisfied. (flavor + fat + protein = satisfaction). Try and consider which option will be the best with the particular recipe you’re making.

If your recipe calls for shredded chicken, chicken breasts are a great choice. I have this Vietnamese rice noodle chicken salad on rotation.

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Gentle nutrition – self-care, not self-control

I want to talk about the last principle of intuitive eating – gentle nutrition. I get a lot of questions when folks start working with me about what they should be eating. And I get it! You hired a dietitian! Of course you want me to tell you what to eat.

But I know that is not what you actually need. You know a lot about nutrition. You don’t need more information on the food pyramid. And honestly, a prescriptive meal plan isn’t going to help you learn to trust your body either. And I am not here to feed into diet culture – I am here to actually help you improve your relationship with food, learn to trust yourself.

So once you’re eating when you’re hungry, stopping when you’re full (most of the time), choosing food that you enjoy, and prioritizing your self-care as much as you can reasonably find time for – we get to gentle nutrition. If you need to go back and read more about the first 9 steps of intuitive eating, I wrote about that here.

Why this chicken tomatillo stew is an example of gentle nutrition

This is an easy way to add some super nutritious elements into your meal in a non-traditional way. Blending onion, garlic, and tomatillo into a sauce is a great way to add veggies, fiber, and phytonutrients without racking your brain for what to do with your vegetables.

It’s quick, easy, totally delicious, and can last for days. You’re eating it with rice (whatever kind of rice you want). There is no need to use brown rice if you prefer white. You can add a sprinkling of cotija cheese (feta or grated cheese are fine substitutes if you have one on hand), some hot sauce, or sliced radishes. Or put it with potatoes instead of rice – I bet that would be delicious. And yes, potatoes are a GREAT choice. Think culinarily… not “good vs bad”.

Eating healthfully doesn’t have to feel like a slog or like some kind of tightrope you must not fall off of. That’s what gentle nutrition help with – using nutrition knowledge in a gentle way, that feels like self-care rather than self-control.

Enlightened hedonism.

It is the last step in the intuitive eating framework. If you’re working on your relationship with food and/or working to improve your body image, cooking can sometimes feel triggering, and choosing nutritious foods can feel confusing and complicated. That is okay.

How To Know When You’re Ready For Gentle Nutrition

At some point, after you’ve committed to taking care of yourself even if you don’t lose weight, and you’ve been making peace with food and listening to your body consistently and with self-compassion, you may start noticing that all the nutrition advice you’ve heard over the years through diets, the media, the nutrition police, start to feel like whispers rather than shouts. Or, more likely, you’ll realize how most of it is unhelpful, and you just need a simple, gentle framework for eating well.

The rules are no longer rules. I like to describe them as lowercase suggestions given with a hug, rather than dogma yelled at you with a wagging finger. However you want to imagine it is fine – but in time, you can start to use nutrition information gently.

When is it too soon for gentle nutrition?

This can throw people off when just starting on their intuitive eating journey. It can be very hard, sometimes impossible, to look at the nutritiousness of your diet in a gentle and compassionate way if you’re still stuck in the diet mindset, working on allowing all foods equally, or not quite able to hear your hunger and fullness cues. All of this takes work and patience. But you can get there.

Finding motivation to cook

If you’re struggling with finding the motivation or willingness to cook food for yourself, I feel you. It’s okay. You don’t have to cook all the time to be healthy, or happy, or normal. But if you hear a voice deep down that says it would feel really good to make yourself dinner, try this recipe for one pot chicken tomatillo stew. It’ll feel novel and yummy. Grocery delivery is fine. If you’re unfamiliar with tomatillos, they are the tart, juicy green tomatoes that make up any verde sauce at your favorite Mexican restaurant. You can also check this out for more tomatillo news. So here’s the recipe.

tomatillos cilantro chicken thighs recipe intuitive eating gentle nutrition

One pot chicken tomatillo stew with lime


  • 1 medium onion, ends trimmed and very roughly chopped
  • 5 garlic cloves, peeled
  • 1-2 tablespoons olive oil or canola oil
  • 1 teaspoon ground cumin
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 2 pounds boneless, skinless chicken thighs (you can leave them whole of chop them up)
  • 10 tomatillos, husks removed, rinsed and quartered (most grocery stores carry these, but you may have to ask)
  • 2 jalapeños, quartered
  • 1 bunch fresh cilantro, washed and ends trimmed about 2 inches (you can use most of the stalk)
  • 1 lime, quartered
  • 1 cup uncooked rice (any kind of rice)
  • 2 tablespoons toasted sesame seeds (optional)
  • other fun toppings: cotija, slides radishes, yogurt or sour cream


  • Make rice according to package instructions, or a basic 1:2 rice to water mixture, with a 1/2 teaspoon of salt and a bay leaf. The bay leaf is certainly not necessary but I’ve taken to always having them on hand and throwing one in the pot of grains as it cooks – just adds a little something.
  • Place tomatillos, onion, garlic, jalapeno, cilantro, cumin, and salt in a food processor and blend until smooth. If you’re using a blender, you may need to do this in two batches.
  • Place chicken thighs and tomatillo mixture in a large pot and cook on low for 45 minutes to an hour
  • Serve stew over rice. Top with more cilantro, lime, and a dollop of yogurt or sour cream and sesame seeds, if desired. Alternatively, you can tear up the chicken with a tongs after it’s cooked and make tacos or a burrito.

Comfort food meets nutritious dinner meets something that goes with a margarita.

And as always, if you’re looking for help on your relationship with food, you can sign up for my email list, where I send biweekly letter on how to eat delicious food, care for you perfectly imperfect body, and buck oppressive cultural messaging around what you ‘should’ be doing. Plus recipes and stories from bold women.

If you’re looking for help now on digging deep and really making progress toward total peace and liberation with food and your body – sign up for the waitlist for my Love Food Again Program. The next cohort is launching at the beginning October 2023 and the waitlist gets first access.

Regardless, I’m glad you’re here on the anti-diet path, paving the way for all of us to finally feel free to JUST BE.

About Emily

Emily Van Eck, MS, RDN specializes in intuitive eating, mindfulness-based eating practices, embodiment with food and movement, and healing from years of weight-bias and chronic dieting. She helps people find balance, consistency, and peace with their eating habits so they can feel confident to get outta their heads and into their bodies. Emily is a registered dietitian and certified intuitive eating counselor with a master’s degree in nutrition science. Read more about her here.

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